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Unmasking the Myth of Toxic Positivity: What Really Lies Beneath Empty Platitudes
Stop inventing new terms for age-old human experiences.
Let’s get one thing straight: positivity is positivity.
“Toxic positivity”?
Really? Positivity, toxic?
Seriously, who came up with this term?
It’s like saying toxic sunshine or toxic laughter.
Positivity can’t be toxic, just like a puppy can’t be venomous.
We’ve become a society obsessed with categorizing everything into neat little boxes with snazzy labels.
Slapping a new name on it doesn’t change the core issue; it just makes everyone more confused.
I get it.
Life kicks you in the shins, and someone comes up spouting rainbows and unicorns, missing the emotional mark by a country mile.
Something crappy happens — your car breaks down, your dog eats your favorite shoes, or your lover suddenly…