Ignorance Isn’t Bliss: Why It’s Time to Wake Up, Take Responsibility, and Stop Coasting

Blissfully unaware? Time to ditch the excuses and wake up.

Kateria Wynn
6 min readSep 10, 2024
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Let’s get something straight right off the bat: ignorance is not bliss.

Never was, never will be.

It’s not even a good excuse for why you didn’t know your ex was cheating on you.

Yet here we are, with the majority represented in our society — yes, I’m looking directly at you, the white folks — holding onto this phrase like it’s some kind of golden ticket out of responsibility.

But let me burst that bubble for you because, trust me, ignorance is not saving your ass from anything, least of all from the reality everyone else sees so clearly.

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Ignorance is like that one party trick where someone pulls a tablecloth out from under a fully set table and nothing falls — except in your case, everything falls, shatters, and makes a huge mess that someone else has to clean up.

Spoiler alert: those “someone elses” are the minority and underrepresented communities who’ve been forced to witness this carnage all their lives.

While you’ve been skipping along, blissfully unaware of the storm brewing just behind your rose-colored glasses, the rest of us have been scrambling for cover, building shelters from the shards of your shattered ignorance.

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Oh, but let’s not stop there — ignorance hasn’t just left you in the dark; it’s also left you disconnected from reality.

I mean, how’s that really working out for you?

Let’s face it: most of y’all are sitting on mountains of unaddressed traumas — yes, the ones that are glaringly obvious to everyone else — that you could’ve dealt with decades ago if you weren’t so busy believing that ignorance was your friend.

Plot twist: it wasn’t.

And don’t even get me started on those unprogressive companies, still trudging along like dinosaurs in the tar pits, blissfully unaware that evolution is coming for them.

Guess who’s at the helm of these sinking ships? Yep, folks with your DNA.

Ignorance is hereditary, it seems, and the apple doesn’t fall far from the blissfully unaware tree.

And since I’m 28% white, I guess I’ve got some skin in the game here, so let’s talk turkey.

Now, let’s tackle this idea that ignorance shields you from the discomfort of knowing unpleasant truths.

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Sure, you might get to enjoy your sunny day, but what happens when the storm hits?

Spoiler alert: the storm always hits.

While you’re out there enjoying your “bliss,” the rest of us have been keeping our umbrellas at the ready because we know better.

The so-called bliss of ignorance?

It’s like trying to stay dry by hiding under a newspaper — it’s flimsy, temporary, and ultimately, you’re gonna get soaked.

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Eventually, the consequences catch up, whether it’s missing out on critical information that could protect you or failing to grow as a person because you’re still stuck in a limited worldview.

But here’s the kicker: ignorance isn’t just a lack of knowledge; it’s a tool of control. And it’s been used masterfully to keep you complacent, to make sure you don’t ask too many questions or stir the pot.

Because when you’re in the dark, you can be led to believe anything — like that the earth is flat or that you can’t park your car without a backup camera.

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Those in power have been feeding you this ignorance, this “bliss,” so they can continue to pull the strings while you dance merrily along, completely unaware that you’re being played.

Oh, and that story society sold you? The one where you don’t have to feel responsible for anything?

Yeah, that’s the most seductive lie of all.

It’s like eating all the cake you want without ever gaining a pound, except instead of cake, it’s responsibility, and instead of no pounds, it’s no accountability.

But here’s the thing: just because you’re not paying attention doesn’t mean the consequences disappear.

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They’re just building up, like the clutter in your garage you swear you’ll clean out someday.

Newsflash: “someday” is now, and that garage is full. So how’s all that ignorance treating you?

If I had to guess, I’d say not too well.

Seems like it’s left you depressed, disconnected, and disempowered.

Like you’ve been living in a fog, wandering around aimlessly, wondering why life feels so damn empty.

Well, here’s the truth you’ve been avoiding: the bliss of ignorance is a facade.

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It’s left you vulnerable, at the mercy of forces you don’t understand, and entirely unprepared for the realities of life.

Meanwhile, the rest of us have been out here learning, growing, and taking responsibility for our lives. We’ve been navigating life’s complexities with our eyes wide open, and guess what?

It’s a hell of a lot more empowering than wandering around in the dark. So, enough is enough. It’s time to stop spreading the bullshit that ignorance is bliss.

It’s not bliss — it’s a slow descent into stagnation, depression, and disconnection from our shared humanity.

True empowerment, real bliss, comes from knowledge, awareness, and taking control of your life.

It comes from facing the truth, no matter how uncomfortable, and using it to grow, to make a difference, and to create a life that’s truly fulfilling.

Ignorance has never been bliss for those of us who don’t fit into the neat little categories society has tried to shove us into.

And it’s about time you realized that it hasn’t been bliss for you either.

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Kateria Wynn
Kateria Wynn

Written by Kateria Wynn

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